[Serious] why the hell would someone terribly miss and wish they could still be friends with an ex who really didn't treat them well?
why should you not spend your time and energy thinking about someone who didn't treat you well? what are some good reasons not to, despite being hurt and confused over it?
How do you deal with the contradiction of everyone thinking he's a great person when he didn't treat you well and hurt you in private? M F 20s
I thought he was a lovely, wonderful, good-natured person but he harmed/hurt me, how do I make sense of that? F & M 20s
If you think someone is a lovely, wonderful, good-natured person but they harm/hurt you, how do you make sense of that? F & M 20s
Have you ever been totally confused from believing a guy you were dating was a genuinely good person but he didn't treat you all that well? F&M 20s
If someone you thought was your friend and a good person violates your boundaries and trust, how do you make sense of it and let go?
how do you stop loving someone who doesn't deserve it? especially if you've seen their goodness?
If you think someone is a lovely, wonderful, good-natured person but they harm/hurt you, how do you make sense of that?
If you tell him your boundaries but it's not taken seriously and you enjoy it, how do you make sense of it?
If all love and relationships (even the good ones) come with pain and they always end, why pursue them at all? What's the point if at the end, it's just painful as hell?