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My mum (56F) lied to my dad (51M) about what I (26F) did and now I’m not welcome home until I apologise.

Author : IHateAvocad0s
Points : 291
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 32

Set boundaries with my date, subsequently gaslighted

Points : 1,707
Published : 13 hours ago
Comments : 133

PSA: It’s okay to have your own holiday / holidays

Author : Mythriel27
Points : 95
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 11

Nmum called me today to tell me she'd booked my boyfriend and I dentist appointments. She didn't like being told she can't do that.

Author : Elotar
Points : 63
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 22

By all accounts, I'm a spoiled brat that hasn't worked a day in it's life,and have no right to complain about the "bad things, when I'm so much luckier than others".

Points : 194
Published : 8 hours ago
Comments : 58

DAEs narc seem overly preoccupied with fears of minor (or merely unlikely) harm that others might cause you yet they can’t see the utter emotional destruction *they* have caused?

Points : 24
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 9

My Nmom gave a stranger a panic attack. [Trigger warning: description of verbal abuse]

Author : dinofury
Points : 1,413
Published : 21 hours ago
Comments : 153

Tip for avoiding the fake “big happy family” photos from being spread: Frown or keep a straight face in the photo

Points : 46
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 9

Anyone else have parents who constantly belittled other parents?

Author : fifthvolt
Points : 136
Published : 9 hours ago
Comments : 29

I don’t know how to love my mom right now

Author : Bearcub2
Points : 8
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 8

Tried to do something I enjoy for the first time in 2.5 years, NDad tries to ruin it.

Author : madguins
Points : 60
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 7

My nmother finally died and all I can feel is relief.

Points : 478
Published : 16 hours ago
Comments : 91

Mothers can be nice

Author : RBNrealestate
Points : 36
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 3

DAE feel like shit every single time you realize you share a personality trait with your Nparents?

Author : shinyteerex
Points : 6
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 3

[Tip] A post to share Holiday tips to ease off the Nabuse.

Points : 13
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 12

Text from Nmom. Is there any hope?

Author : RbnBurner1
Points : 9
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 9

Medical neglect, guilt-trips, love-bombing...

Points : 6
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 2

Nparents pissed I have an interview

Points : 4
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

I feel very confused about my mother nowadays

Author : MacaroonRiot
Points : 5
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 3

Gifts and Guilt

Author : NyGiLu
Points : 4
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 5

NMothers and their inconsiderate ways

Author : redbellblue
Points : 10
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 2

DAE feel AWFUL when you make a mistake?

Author : shcbutterfly
Points : 21
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 15

Deep seated fear that Nmum is right...

Author : pingdongdang
Points : 4
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 3

Being gaslighted/isolated by my mom and don't feel safe at home...need advice

Author : Nio_Kuzunoha
Points : 5
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 2

Does anyone else have an N parent who isn’t always on ‘full N’ mode..?

Author : denrae-
Points : 23
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 10

People whose parents were dumb/low IQ, what dumb things did they say, do, believe, etc?

Author : LatterDegree
Points : 3
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

How to Let Go of Repressed Anger

Author : NextKangaroo
Points : 3
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Trying to figure out what my mom's problem is...

Points : 3
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 4

Found an old email from my N-Dad. Reading it now makes my blood boil and Im wondering whether my reaction is correct or if Im being too sensitive.

Author : MaryJaneMouse
Points : 56
Published : 8 hours ago
Comments : 22

Forgetting about my NMom

Author : gooddday23
Points : 7
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 1

I was taught to feel horrible guilt for receiving expensive gifts. How can I get over this?

Author : irlgarbodor
Points : 3
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

Need advice on seeing family after several years of NC.

Author : Azul_Tortuga
Points : 7
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 16

She only wants me when I'm broken

Points : 76
Published : 10 hours ago
Comments : 4

Should I care that my nparents don't know they are nparents?

Points : 4
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 6

UPDATE: My NDad responded to my email initiating official NC, and it was exactly what I expected

Points : 24
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 7

I...I finally stood up to her

Author : sarcasmbunny
Points : 45
Published : 8 hours ago
Comments : 8

"I helped you so much when you were a child and now I don't want to anymore"

Author : JackGhost1
Points : 8
Published : 44 minutes ago
Comments : 3

my Nmom hardly provides food

Points : 9
Published : 7 seconds ago
Comments : 8

How to handle unwanted Amazon gifts?

Author : exegete_
Points : 2
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Thanksgiving Apology/Love Bomb Received #ohjoy

Points : 55
Published : 10 hours ago
Comments : 19

continually doubting if i've been abused

Author : notyasmin
Points : 33
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 16

Nmom just screamed at me for being so private and secluded and how people who do that end up "separating from family"

Author : Rashed_69
Points : 108
Published : 14 hours ago
Comments : 35

I think I’ll miss my mom for who I wanted her to be, not for who she actually is

Author : Bearcub2
Points : 2
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 3

How many of you were pitted against your siblings while growing up with NParents?

Points : 11
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 4

Sharing my story with others

Points : 5
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 7

I have an abusive Narcissistic dad (parents divorced live with mom) and he has made his whole family think it's my fault why our relationship is bad.

Author : SilentWindMan
Points : 4
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 4

How do I even respond to this text from my golden child older bro? -The scapegoat

Points : 18
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 14

How can I convince myself that people like me?

Points : 3
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 2

Waiting for the blow up

Author : littleredtodd
Points : 3
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 7

I’m Thankful for Thanksgiving, when it’s fucking over.

Author : pallethead17
Points : 6
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 11

I had a trust fund once, before I was involuntarily committed to a psych hospital and declared incompetent long enough for my ndad to spend every penny. AMA (joking about this post being an AMA)

Points : 5
Published : 51 minutes ago
Comments : 6

That parents are supposed to teach their children the basics in life left me totally flabbergasted

Author : GreenShack
Points : 89
Published : 16 hours ago
Comments : 37

I've come to accept that I was raised by nparents.... but

Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Last Straw - Parents not invited to wedding.

Author : domwill80
Points : 17
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 20

I think my Nmum is trying to guilt more money out of me. I’m trying to save up to leave and I’m panicking

Author : lynxwarden
Points : 10
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 11

Has your nParent ever tried to ruin or tear apart a serious relationship you had for control or other nefarious reasons?

Author : R8driver
Points : 24
Published : 9 hours ago
Comments : 7

My N-sister banished me from holiday gatherings. My mom is again, pleading with me to be the one to "be the bigger person"

Points : 49
Published : 13 hours ago
Comments : 27

Songs that you feel helped.

Author : Average_Abby
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 3

Terrified and dreading the holidays

Author : GarySixNoine
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 3

Guilt with an Ndad

Author : 5678543212
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Shut down her guilt trip...

Author : Jack_Tyln
Points : 4
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 7

Nmom is really getting to me

Author : tr0pisms
Points : 3
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 5

Nmom opened up credit cards/loans in GF’s name

Author : dtb419
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Did Ndad start dating too soon after my mom’s death? He says I’m “too sensitive”

Author : catanne91
Points : 6
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 3

I have an important police question for my friend

Author : SnesySnas
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 3

DAE suffer from nightmares about their Nparents?

Points : 30
Published : 11 hours ago
Comments : 14

Coping with medical neglect thanks to my narcissistic mother

Points : 5
Published : 33 minutes ago
Comments : 3

My mom is trying to psyche me out of a 1 mo seasonal job I just got

Points : 9
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 6

I don't know If this counts as narcissistic but here it is

Author : PineConeYeet
Points : 5
Published : 53 minutes ago
Comments : 4

My Ngma told me I should forgive my Nmother for everything she’s done in the past

Points : 3
Published : 37 minutes ago
Comments : 7

VALIDATION (Posting here so I don't make a vaguepost breaking NC)

Author : roseruinns
Points : 8
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 1

Abuse is not limited to humans in this household.

Author : grimreeferhxc
Points : 9
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 3

Told when to sleep

Points : 19
Published : 9 hours ago
Comments : 6

Won a little victory last night.

Author : DarthSpinster
Points : 71
Published : 17 hours ago
Comments : 11

DAE have an Nparent play the martyr?

Author : XxSabirahxX
Points : 4
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 10

For those wondering what happens to narcissists when they grow old, my grandma's what happens.

Points : 6
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 3

I had the courage to stand up for myself

Author : Fairy1895
Points : 2
Published : 50 minutes ago
Comments : 3

My mother just yelled at me, name calling me, because I told her I haven't been feed in the past three days.

Author : Jasonac24
Points : 4
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 7

Are Ns pre-cognitive?

Author : AvengeThe90s
Points : 8
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 4

How can I stop missing them.

Author : Adjnor
Points : 3
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 2

My dad hasn't changed.

Points : 19
Published : 11 hours ago
Comments : 3

I can't be my nmoms grief counselor

Author : 888frog
Points : 2
Published : 16 minutes ago
Comments : 4

A peek inside the mind of partner’s NMom

Points : 7
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

Nparents doing nothing about me choking badly on food

Author : SpookySpices
Points : 60
Published : 17 hours ago
Comments : 17

Holiday encouragement: it does get better

Points : 46
Published : 16 hours ago
Comments : 7
Points : 20
Published : 12 hours ago
Comments : 11

I can’t stand this anymore I need a way out

Author : risepure
Points : 3
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 4

Finally done with nmom

Points : 4
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 5

It's been almost a week

Author : honeybee512
Points : 3
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 2

It's not my 'tone of voice' that bothers you, it's what im saying that bothers you!

Points : 6
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

Feel guilty for buying a car

Author : iachick85
Points : 4
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 7

To the people in this subreddit that became parents themselves...

Author : Karithea
Points : 49
Published : 17 hours ago
Comments : 32

(17/F) Should I cut off my parents? They still somehow control/abuse me in college but I can't risk losing my tuition/insurance/etc

Author : smxhm
Points : 10
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 3