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Author : RBNmod
Points : 564
Published : 4 months ago
Comments : 93

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Author : RBNmod
Points : 13
Published : 16 hours ago
Comments : 3

Fiancée’s NMom wore her wedding dress to our wedding! Our battle plan mostly worked, though.

Author : chibi-usa
Points : 2,800
Published : 45 minutes ago
Comments : 144

"I wouldn't kick you out!" - my father, who kicked me out

Points : 306
Published : 8 hours ago
Comments : 36

Update: I caught my Nsister trying to fake her nursing degree.

Author : arcanine911
Points : 19
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 3

Saw a mom verbally abusing her high-school-aged son at a gas station.

Author : ilovekuro
Points : 20
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 6

"That's not a good enough reason."

Author : SprinkleChips
Points : 1,335
Published : 18 hours ago
Comments : 152

Nparents think it's their right to know about my SEX LIFE

Author : chanel_no_1
Points : 832
Published : 16 hours ago
Comments : 111

Just broke down in tears ''trying to be my own parent''

Author : Madlife1992
Points : 30
Published : 43 minutes ago
Comments : 8

Do you feel like you have a lack of experiences for your age because of NParents?

Author : Frei1993
Points : 54
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 25

The spell is broken!

Author : graziadoon
Points : 60
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 7

You are allowed to be tired.....

Author : rachmeg217
Points : 564
Published : 15 hours ago
Comments : 66

Nmother crashed into the hospital against my wishes to yell at me immediately post-surgery.

Author : shinyteerex
Points : 320
Published : 12 hours ago
Comments : 44

Being raised in fear and learning as an adult what kindness is

Author : Bluebird_1988
Points : 10
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 2

I’m going NC with Nmom after I move out

Author : tris_12
Points : 7
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 2

Did anyone else look for proof?

Author : SoylentR
Points : 17
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 10

Was anyone else the only person in their family to recognize the narcissism?

Author : yetchsir
Points : 16
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 10

Has anyone else's Nparent hosted an event for you, but was really for them?

Points : 10
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 13

DAE feel guilty for expressing your emotions to anyone about how your nparents treat you?

Author : djmonixx
Points : 11
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 4

Does anyone else have memories coming back and realizing things were even worse than they remembered?

Author : Madlife1992
Points : 28
Published : 54 minutes ago
Comments : 5

Dealing with going LC/NC (rant/I need help)

Author : Novel_Gazelle
Points : 5
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Ndad disconnected the call when I called him to tell that I was in an accident

Author : motherofacat
Points : 252
Published : 14 hours ago
Comments : 39

nParents and Driving—Anyone?

Author : fauna-bear
Points : 7
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 8

What couldn't you do right?

Author : TransAtlantia
Points : 21
Published : 45 minutes ago
Comments : 16

Today I came out

Author : jovanik
Points : 174
Published : 12 hours ago
Comments : 22

I sat with other adults and was able to handle total silence for 5 minutes.

Author : PattyIce32
Points : 6
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 2

I am NOT a waste!

Points : 14
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 9

I did it! Finally got out of my abusive household!

Author : egXCIII
Points : 126
Published : 11 hours ago
Comments : 11

Can you help me moving out in peace?

Points : 3
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

I think I’ve found a true friend

Author : spiteykitty
Points : 5
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 1

How to Expose that your NParent's Apology is Not Sincere?

Points : 3
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 13

"Are you popping pills?"

Author : djmonixx
Points : 32
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 4

DAE have their N tell them they shouldn't discuss mental health with anyone?

Points : 40
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 8

The movie started at 7:25, now it’s 7:30 and we’re just leaving the house - running on narc time

Author : RainSteele
Points : 72
Published : 10 hours ago
Comments : 27

"I think someone hacked your email."

Author : cherrykushhh
Points : 3
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

I had a heart attack, but Nmom was suffering with a wicked rash. Luckily, she was a real trooper.

Author : kristyreal
Points : 1,405
Published : 1 day ago
Comments : 85

I still don't know how to tell my story without coming off as juvenile

Points : 23
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 14

Do you really have to forgive?

Points : 10
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 23

Love my grandmas, but they're flying monkeys.

Author : Gogoia
Points : 3
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Not sure whether my sister is the sadistic narcissistic sociopath I think she is or if I'm just a wimp.

Points : 2
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 2

Nmom (67F) told my daughter (19F) about her abortion & told her not to tell me

Author : lives4books
Points : 7
Published : 42 minutes ago
Comments : 10

I stood up for myself

Author : meow_meemeez
Points : 4
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 1

Why did nobody intervene?

Points : 2
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

Dealing with sibling intimidation.

Author : Katherein
Points : 8
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 3

DAE have narcs that are demons at home but are angels to everyone else?

Author : Rashed_69
Points : 92
Published : 14 hours ago
Comments : 28

“My boys always knew I expected perfection” he chuckled to his friend. “In fact, they still do”.

Author : r0ck13r4c00n
Points : 266
Published : 20 hours ago
Comments : 16

Nmom doesn’t understand why GC (son) doesn’t want a girlfriend who looks like her.

Author : Kaitzilla
Points : 56
Published : 11 hours ago
Comments : 4

I just want to get out of his "world", i want to be happy again. Im at my limit.

Points : 5
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 1

"Better dead than a failure"

Author : kat-official
Points : 11
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 3

I won’t look at you in this house anymore but you musn’t move out!!

Author : lonckmdxx
Points : 5
Published : 48 minutes ago
Comments : 1

What’s up with the infantilizing?

Author : dropaline99
Points : 270
Published : 21 hours ago
Comments : 70

Is it weird to feel you won't be sad if your nparent passes away?

Author : BroodingBirb
Points : 51
Published : 11 hours ago
Comments : 29

"Is it that time of the month?"

Author : Jehosheba
Points : 9
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 13

I Can't Have a Relationship With My NMom

Author : Ronology
Points : 19
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 8

Does anyone else hate when their Nparents try to be the hero and tell you what to do when something is going really wrong in your life, even though that's already what you were going to do so they claim responsibility over your accomplishments?

Author : saiasox
Points : 4
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 1

Awful Memory About How My Mom Treated Our Cat

Points : 9
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 2

I want to feel close to my nmom but I just don’t feel anything

Author : circadeftones
Points : 3
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 2

NMom says that I should just be a good son and let her beat me instead of defying her and defending myself.

Points : 127
Published : 17 hours ago
Comments : 21

Has anyone ended up dating/marrying an N after being raised by one?

Points : 131
Published : 18 hours ago
Comments : 53

Weirdest things your nparent have said to you?

Points : 4
Published : 41 minutes ago
Comments : 6

Just want to disappear. Can't stand myself anymore

Points : 3
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 1

i feel like crying for finding this place

Points : 75
Published : 15 hours ago
Comments : 8

Meeting my gf’s nMom and eDad next weekend for the first time, and could use advice on how to interact with them.

Author : ElvisAaron
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

I'm giving my nfather an ultimatum, get help or get out.

Author : ObeseSlothss
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

I was informed through a third party my childhood cat Sushi passed, 3 weeks after his passing.

Author : pdizzle420
Points : 35
Published : 11 hours ago
Comments : 9

I think I’m codependent. Help!

Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Update on Teddy’s exploding heart, and developing courage

Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

I get sick around narcs

Author : jmabrac
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Have you ever sensed jealousy from your N parent

Author : auntjeminma
Points : 19
Published : 8 hours ago
Comments : 6

A dilemma with jobs [Advice] [TW:Sexual Abuse, Emotional Abuse]

Author : LunaHeartBeam
Points : 1
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 1

Do narcissists expect us to be Robots?

Author : ManU_Yank
Points : 8
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 4

Inappropriate sexual remarks

Points : 25
Published : 10 hours ago
Comments : 11

How do you feel being RBN affects you now as an adult?

Points : 3
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 4

Does anyone else’s narc always talk over you and never care about what you say?

Author : RainSteele
Points : 52
Published : 14 hours ago
Comments : 15

Everyone defends my narc and blames me

Author : RainSteele
Points : 1
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 2

Restraining orders

Author : MaevyBaby17
Points : 1
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

Did our parents watch the same news reports in the 90s?

Points : 8
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 8

When will she quit

Points : 7
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 1

“All I know about being good I learned from TV.” -Bojack Horseman

Author : ginger_sprout
Points : 38
Published : 13 hours ago
Comments : 8

Therapist said I have narcissistic tendencies

Author : Healing11690
Points : 1
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 3

Flying monkey mom ruined my 30th birthday

Points : 1
Published : 6 hours ago
Comments : 1

Need to write a will

Author : faganisty
Points : 6
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 4

Absolute silence

Points : 2
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 4

I’m scared to be like my Nmother...

Author : Pixforyou
Points : 1
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 1

I've come to the conclusion that my Nmom's entire side of the family are Narcs, just in time for the holidays

Author : QueenVG90
Points : 1
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 1

Blessed and Burned

Points : 5
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 3

Flashback of pervy Nm's boyfriend "playfully" undressing me

Points : 61
Published : 16 hours ago
Comments : 13

BPD mother. Life is so meshed in every aspect. Fucking me up I'm sure

Author : SonOfABPD
Points : 1
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 1

What is the best way a spouse can support a partner with both an Nmom and Ndad?

Author : dthgrpss
Points : 6
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 2

Not allowed to be depressed

Author : hamilton44fan
Points : 15
Published : 9 hours ago
Comments : 7

Did your parents always make you out to be a problem child?

Points : 368
Published : 1 day ago
Comments : 89

How do you deal with getting triggered at work? Today it's horrible for me

Points : 2
Published : 1 hour ago
Comments : 7

Mom thinks me being a furry is bad

Author : A_random_folf
Points : 0
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 9

Should I break up with longterm bf over narc mother?

Author : pixipine
Points : 1
Published : 4 hours ago
Comments : 7

Ever have the urge to break NC to rub in how good your life is despite your NP's?

Author : Flashpuppy
Points : 17
Published : 10 hours ago
Comments : 10

Is it possible at ALL to be normal after being raised by abnormal parents?

Author : sirjasda4th
Points : 3
Published : 3 hours ago
Comments : 2

I got into a fight tonight with my Ndad and little sister. I feel like it’s all my fault and I was in the wrong.

Author : Ver3232
Points : 6
Published : 5 hours ago
Comments : 1

Any forever alones on rbn?

Author : MadTrini
Points : 10
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 8

Nparents and responsibilities

Points : 12
Published : 10 hours ago
Comments : 1

Watching The Sixth Sense

Author : cpalfy2173
Points : 6
Published : 7 hours ago
Comments : 3

Feeling compassionate for Nmom’s suffering?

Points : 2
Published : 2 hours ago
Comments : 5