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That’s not a problem. It simply is. Your body, possibly with assistance from expectation, is responding to stimulation. It’s like asking if there’s a way to fix the problem of enjoying one food over another.
Everyone has orgasms from different things especially women. And if you don’t cum during sex that’s normal and he shouldn’t be hurt. He should want to make you orgasm in the way that you like it the most. Not what you see in porn. Cuz that shit can be so far from the truth it’s funny.
Communicate that you love being fingered and that’s just the reality of it. People get off in so many different ways and have a bunch of preferences.
There isn’t anything to fix, just make sure to let the hubby know that what he does with his hands is magic. It would hurt his feelings more to find out that every time you guys finish having sex that you’re not fully satisfied.
Do you mean penetrative fingering? Because if you like finger-on-clit, that can be incorporated into PIV, and maybe he can learn.
It's not a common problem, because it isn't a problem at all.
The same thing happens to me. Most of the guys I've been with haven't managed to get me off vaginally, but G-spot orgasms are really intense.
I can orgasm from sex now, with my current BF. I find that it comes down to the position. Missionary and cowgirl do nothing for me, but doggy and some other reverse entry positions make a difference. I'll use a vibe at the same time, to basically sandwich my clit/G spot between the head of the vibe and his dick. Don't be ashamed to try toys. Mix it up. And if digital stimulation is the best orgasm for you, then embrace it. Make it work for you.
I only read the title. It's not a "problem," it's true for many many women. Possibly more women than like oral better.
As for your partner, it has nothing whatsoever to do with them, very likely. It's about you, what you like and how you respond. Notwithstanding what some "expert" might say on a blog, tongues aren't subtle enough to give the best kind of stimulation for many m women.
And he (or she) ends up way down there where we can't feel their body or touch their genitals at the same time.
Never could understand why anyone would prefer oral.
I think my ex did to she used to have lots of good orgasms and multiples though
I cant speak for women.
However, in my experiance it has been way easier for people to orgasm from fingering or oral.
assuming you're talking about penetrative fingering (not clit rubbing), have him angle his dick to the spot that you like rubbed. typically, he has to do less deep strokes and rub the shit out of that spot. angles of penetration are important. if you're talking about a clit O from clit fingering, try woman on top grinding his pubic bone with your clit (not so much in/out)