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Your in 4 year relationship, If you been with each other that long. Just ask him.
Are there very conservative social norms around sex where you live?
Wait so you 2 have never had sex before? If so he probably is just waiting till you initiate. He doesnt expect it so why would he initiate?
Maybe he's gay. He should be all over you at that age tbh. Either that or he has a low testosterone issue. Maybe he's asexual.
There is no normal. It is entirely possible he is asexual, or has no interest in sex in general and it is nothing about you. Talking about it is the only way for you to be sure. When you are alone together, just say something like "I would like to add a sexual component to our relationship, and want to talk about those possibilities with you," but probably more in your own words and less formal like.
Do you want to have sex? Not everyone is into it and that is completely ok. If you are really wanting to experience it, then I would just sit down and talk with him. Maybe explain that you've been curious and see how he feels about it.
Your English is great, please don't worry about it. It sounds like you and your boyfriend need to have a serious conversation about sex. It might be that he doesn't feel like he's ready, or he might not be interested in sex, or there could be something else going on - but you won't know unless you ask. Before you ask, though, consider whether YOU are ready to have sex and whether it's something you want, or whether it just seems like something "everyone else" is doing. Sex can be an important part of a relationship for some people, but that doesn't mean that that's how it is for everyone. If you do want to have sex with him, then you need to sit down with him and say "I've been thinking a lot about this lately, and I've decided that I would like to have sex with you sometime soon, if that's something you're interested in. What do you think?" and see what happens.
I'm curious now, though. Is it just sex that he's not interested in, or is it other physical intimacy as well? Do you guys hold hands, cuddle, kiss, make out? Where are you at in this relationship, physically speaking? I'm asking because if you've never done more than kiss each other, it's a pretty big leap from there to sex, so you might want to start by introducing other activities first.
It's understandable ^ it's not you it's him my Advice talk about it he needs to hear what you have to say insecurity is a big killer for relationship and sex your man needs to learn Communication is absolutely essential regarding Sex.
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