So me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time, and we have a pretty decent sex life. Recently though, he has talked to me about how He wants me to be more dominant in bed. Just one issue, I don’t know what to do really.

I want to surprise him and do something unexpected next time we have sex. I just don’t know what to do or say? It will take me a lot of confidence to do this, which I feel like I lack, even in sex sometimes. I just want to make him feel good, and I’m open to try anything with him to make him happy.

So I guess my point is, please give me advice on what to say/do during sex in order for me to be more dominant. Thanks!