A good friend of mine and my partner have been looking to move in to a house together once our lease ends.

But about a month ago she started seeing a new girl, who'd quite toxic and has changed the way my friend acts significantly. She will no longer come to inspections cos she wants to hang out with her girlfriend and its putting in zero effort to even help try.

I'm doing it all on my own and every time I find something she shuts me down but won't tell me what she wants.

I was going to apply to houses and just deal with it if she doesn't like it. She wants to move her new girlfriend in with us so her gf has been putting in her opinion on the house when I told my friend she's not moving in.

I don't want to lose the friendship because she has been amazing in the past. But I'm scared to tell her I don't want to move with her anymore.