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Size doesn’t necessarily equate to better.
She enjoys fucking you and she enjoyed being fisted.
So just enjoy doing those things with her.
It may not grow into something she wants all the time. Or it might. Either way, you’re kind of up to your elbows in it now.
The best thing you can do is start doing your homework. Learn how to fist her right, how to do it safely, and what might be the result of her deciding she likes it.
And even if it’s not your idea of an optimal relationship, remember it’s still your fist she’s getting off on.
I never got to fist my ex but reaching around and sliding a couple fingers inside her while I was fucking her doggy style was hot for both of us!
Sounds like you need to sit down and talk to her about it.
heres the thing. it doesn't stay stretched out like that. one thing I've experimented with after having successfully fisting her, is exploring bounce back time and things like that. in my experience with my wife, if she goes about a week or two without anything in her, particularly if she adds in some kegels, after that "vacation" she can be tight as shes ever been again.
judging in relation to porn and online discussions, anyway... I think her anatomy is on the average to smaller "baseline" size, some porn stars definitely have naturally wider/deeper anatomy than she does, but some women definitely have major trouble doing what we've done, or taking what I've got.
and I am statistically significantly larger than "normal", so that might impact my experience.
I do think that in the very long term, regular sex and such things do make very subtle long term differences, but I don't think its a bad thing. I think its easier with less lube for me to fit in her than it was at the beginning of the relationship.
but as far as satisfying her? I don't think you neccessarily need to worry about it too much. the vagina can with use or lack thereof can vary greatly in tightness and flexibility.
bottom line, she'll tighten back up as long as you aren't basically fisting her several times a week. in my experience, both my wife and I love the entire range of sensation, from being tight enough that my cock feels like a fence post, to big toys and such enough that she can hardly feel me if I hold still in her. you can go back and forth and the whole range can be great.
That could be a net result from doing that for sure.