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Only something like 30% of women can come without clitoral stimulation. You’re normal.
I'm 49 , can count my non-clitoral orgasms on one hand and first one came in my 30s. Focus on the pleasure you have not some mystical thing you don't have.
22 and have never been able to so let me know if you do find out. Remember seeing a statistic somewhere something about only a quarter of women can actually orgasm through vaginal penetration alone so it's not an uncommon problem.
I masturbate all the time with a vibrator on my clit only and no penetration. The orgasms last about 5 to 10 seconds and that's it. I've had one vaginal orgasm and it was amazing, but not really worth the effort to attempt to make it happen. My boyfriend and I were doing anal and I had my big vibrator on my clit and it just started to feel this new pressure building I'd never felt before and I started moving my hips and really grinding my pussy into the toy while he slowly fucked my ass and it felt like I was building to a clitoral orgasm and all the sudden my pussy just started contracting from the inside and it was involuntary and I couldn't flex those muscles if I tried. It contracted for about the same amount of time up to 10 secs, and I also felt it my clit too as I had to remove the vibe from sensitivity after cumming but it felt so fucking amazing and I could feel my pussy throbbing for like 10 minutes afterwards. It only happened that one time.
There is no true distinction between regular orgasms and "vaginal" orgasms. Women who orgasm "vaginally" are actually just grinding their clit against something during the sex, or having the internal parts of their clitoris pulled in stimulating ways. All orgasms for women are ultimately clitoral. The exceptions are orgasms that are essentially mentally triggered, but that's fairly rare and difficult to tease apart from physical sensations happening at the same time.
Anyway for almost all women almost all of the time, both clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration at the same time is the real key to orgasm.
Let me know if you finger it out. I'm over 30 and still have never been able to have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
Most women cant. I have had a vaginal.orgasm 4 or 5 times and thats just been in the last 2 or 3 years. It just sort of happened without rhyme or reason but it was far less intense than clit stimulation.
Okay so I guess it's normal I won't ever get to experience a juice fountain but that's okay.
We are in our 60's, and my wife has never come from PIV, even when she had a FWB who tried for hours to get her to orgasm. She said he was awesome in bed, and had a sizable, but not too large, penis but it never even happened with him. Sometimes it just don't happen.