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Coming from a gal with a way too tight asshole for her own good, tell her how important plugs are! I fucking HATE fingers up my ass, but plugs (when I put them in on my own) are enough for me to feel comfortable and stretch myself out a bit to help reduce pain.
Maybe if she did the plugging herself she would feel okay. I have tried to just use lube and my partners cock and it hurts far too much as if I am going to tear my hole open.
But lube is so important. I find water based lube does need reapplication but feels the best for an easy enter.
Took us a couple separate nights to get it in. Getting her to play with herself really made the difference! She said it relaxed her. It hurt like hell until it went in she said. So you have to be prepared for that. Personally it didn't feel much different it was just hot seeing my dick in her ass
Do not at any point thrust. Just hold it there. Let her do all the work. Be prepared to quit at anytime. Have her masturbate while pressing back against you.
Don’t do doggy. Lube lube and more lube. Lay on your side, spoon position. You don’t move. At all. Let her take her time and push back on to you. Have her relax and breathe. Let her totally control it. After a minute or two add more lube.
Before you do this let her know that you are ok with whatever happens. Tell her that you won’t be grossed out no matter what may occur.
Does she really want to try anal? Because to me, this sounds like: just do it and get it over with.
Water based lube is best. She must be very relaxed. And training with fingers or plugs would be a great idea. It’s gonna hurt if you go straight to dick out you’re of decent size at all.
Weirdly enough I loathed the idea of anal but one time I randomly let this happen in the moment without actually planning to, first a finger and then his penis and it was amazing.. did it about two more times. BUT THEN, the last time we tried it just wouldn't go in and I tore. I've never tried it again since.