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Start with the idea that she isn't bad at it , she just doesn't know what you like. The burden is on you to communicate but to do it carefully.
Don't tell her she's horrible, that will just get her to stop and never do it ever again. It would also likely lead to other sexual withdrawal.
Start by communicating to her various things that she can do to improve her blowjobs. Possibly even talk to her about having run into a tutorial video for how to kick that shit up to 11 and propose watching it together and trying out its suggestions.
Also, as said, work on your sexual communication.
What exactly does she do wrong and how could she make it better?
Talk to her, in words similar to the title - “Hey, I love love having sex with you! You’re amazing and I love exploring you! I love that you want to please me and taste me, but it’s starting to hurt a bit. I think it’s your teeth?”
You could make it a sexy time too. “Why don’t we try practicing?” Or “maybe if you use your lips more like this...” and show her on her own body. Just some ideas! Definitely don’t tell her she’s bad at it. She likely has no clue that you’re not 100% in love with her blowjobs.
find a cute guy on the side to blow you on the dl ?
Don't do it. Be grateful for what you have. Accept the teeth. Don't complain.