I was not brought up this way so I have a difficult time understanding.

It seems she took the Christian shaming and guilt trips she received as a kid to heart and is now having a hard time opening up sexually.

She doesn’t believe this stuff anymore but it still makes being sexual difficult.

Thanks.

Also, I’m sorry if this comes off hostile to Christians. I try to respect all ways of life, I just get frustrated when ideologies hurt the people I love.