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Damn. Our bodies are capable of pushing out formed human beings. He can't be that huge. The harrowing images I've seen on the internet make me refuse to believe his penis can't fit. Does it cause pain when he attempts to penetrate you? If so, definitely see a doctor - any 'you problem' that is impacting your life is a doctor worthy problem. Your body is important. Your sexual health is important. If things don't get better see a doctor.
If not causing pain I'd go with penetrating yourself digitally to get used to the sensation. Go at your own pace. You may find your partner has to do this for you as well prior to penetration. Don't worry about asking for this; he won't have a problem doing so if it is leading to penetration. I'd also try having an orgasm prior to penetration. It could be nerves keeping you too tight - the orgasm will get you relaxed.
If that doesn't work maybe the issue is psychological? Are you feeling anxious, depressed, or not yourself? It could be worth talking with a therapist if things don't get better with practice or seeing a doctor.
Also, keep the communication open with your partner. It is easy to get down on yourself and for your partner to feel lousy about this too. Talk about your wants and needs and be open to his as well.
Bottom line - if the manual stimulation doesn't work, lube doesn't work, lots or foreplay doesn't work I'd see a doctor or therapist. Don't let this get into your head more than it already is. You are a capable sexual person who is going to be enjoying the good D once this gets resolved. Keep at it girl. You deserve the good D. Best of luck.
PS love the line 'weeks ago I confessed to this guy and now we're dating.' The ego boost of 'you're too big to fit' is going to keep him very patient with you.
Always use lube. Try using fingers after getting turned on. Are you tight after that?
You wrote : He has a lot of patience and we usually do lots of foreplay, but good lord, it's hard as fuck to actually fit his penis in my vagina. At all.
I don't understand what you mean exactly.. Is it kind of "too big" or doesn't fit in another way?
PS. Sorry I don't know how to mark your text as a quotation
Lube lube and more lube.
Had the same thing recently...have had sex many times but hadn't in a couple years, our first time was... embarrassing to say the least. The next time we smoke a j and relaxed and lots of foreplay... it was tight initially then a-ok. I think a lot of it is psychological. Just relax and maybe use some lube.
Ok, need stats here, how long how big around.
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