Hey everyone,

so as the title says I want to learn how to give my boyfriend amazing orgasms. He recently told me he likes it when I cup his balls and squeeze and wants me to try and stimulate his prostate by massaging his perineum. He's not really into the idea of me fingering him (although I would loove to do that) so I guess this is the next best thing.

I read some older reddit threads where guys explain how they stimulate their prostate externally but I couldn't find anything from the partner's perspective.

Any tips on what I should be feeling when I hit the right spot, the pressure I should be putting and how fast I should go would be greatly appreciated. Share your experiences as well if you think it would help, since I know everybody is different and what works for someone might not work for someone else.